I am Dating Coach KK – Kimberly Koehler, I am the leading dating coach in Minneapolis, Minnesota who helps singles locally in the Twin Cities, nationally and globally.As a renowned dating coach and keynote speaker Dating Coach KK, Kimberly Koehler is the leading dating and relationship coach in Minneapolis, MN who helps men and women globally.I was having a conversation with a dear friend of mine the other night and the conversation took us to a couple we know.My friend indicated that there was some seemingly trouble in Paradise as the male partner in the relationship had shared that there is some tension and they are having some struggles.
When a man asks about your weekend and you say, “I just sat around the house,” all kinds of warning bells go off. “I need some space.” Really means one of these two options: • 98% – “I need a new girlfriend.” • 2% – “I think I might need a new girlfriend, and I need some distance so I can decide for sure.” This is an interesting sentence.
She means: Something really shitty has happened to me because of a man/men so you better not fuck with me, OK?! She means: I’m looking for someone who has a job — like, a full-time job. She means: It’s not like I’m definitely going to have sex with you on our first date, so you better not take it that way. If you are more than five minutes late for our first date, I am leaving. She means: You’re going to have to do karaoke with me someday. She means: If you don’t like animals, you’re as a good as a bonafide sociopath in my eyes.
She means: I just got out of college, where being social at all requires a minimum of two nights of binge-drinking a week. She means: I’m actually in the middle of a text message “screaming” match (all caps) with my “best friend” right now and her idiot boyfriend because of something I don't even want to get into right now because I am NOT into drama.
Most healthy relationships already have enough space and alone-time for a person to do their contemplating about how they feel.
Many men use this sentence as a break-up strategy, with the idea that once they are away from you, the break-up will be easier for them to execute.
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